As human beings, we inherit not only our genes from ancestors but also various patterns of behaviour, both conscious and unconscious and their traumas from our ancestors – be it illness, grief, painful relationships or wealth issues. Family Constellation is an insightful way to become aware of all the family drawn patterns, both hidden and repetitive, which act as a barrier in our evolution. When entanglements are resolved in a family tree, love flows naturally from previous generations to the present and future generations.
While working with thousands of family systems for over 50 years, German psychotherapist, philosopher and author Bert Hellinger discovered age-old, hidden “Orders of Love” that operate in the depths of family organisms. Violation and disrespect of these natural laws due to tragic circumstances and unconscious behaviour in the earlier generations affect the lives of the latter members of the family. Hellinger observed that many of us unconsciously “take on” destructive familial patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, aloneness, alcoholism and even illness as a way of “belonging” in our families. Family Constellation is a powerful healing tool that enables one to break and heal one’s transgenerational patterns and entanglements for living a healthier, happier, and more fulfilled lives. This tool is effective for families, 7 generations before as well as after.
Family Constellation leads to the realization that it is never too late for a happy life. For every person, there is only one right place in their family, and that is their own place. Once they have found and taken that place, a new perspective opens up, which makes them capable of taking action.